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Do ladies get $ arrangement offers prior to meeting?

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Alright ladies,

While this might seem bizarre, it is quite possible that it is a prevalent practice, but does not make rational

sense.

 

One lady, during the course of messaging asked me how much i was going to be paying?

I typically need to see and feel a person before i can go that far in terms of discussing arrangements.

 

Matters of the heart cannot have a $ amount placed sight unseen.

 

But if there is someone hot, i can imagine that daddies might throw $ signs to beat the competition.

 

I am curious to hear about your experiences in such situations and has it worked out well?. Have they

stood by their committment and were you happy?

 

I am not sure what the ladies (22-27 yrs) value more these days.

 

Cheers

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1 year ago Total posts: 8

Thank you and well said!!!!

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1 year ago Total posts: 1

Couldn't agree more Rob, i am not that naive to think that money would not play a part in this, but i was also directed to believe that the site orchestrated an arrangement based on a relationship, IE: both parties would end up in a serious relationship and maybe / eventually fall in love, yes the SD taking care of the SB in a father figure sort of way and financially, and the SB giving him the companionship and relationship he would like.

But i may be wrong, it certainly looks like quite a few of the ladies are under the impression you should pay them money whatever, forgive me for being blunt, but as a Sitting Judge, that is definitely a form of prostitution, and i would not be alone thinking that quite a few of the men would find the same situation on a street corner somewhere for half the cost. 

Apologies if i have offended any lovely ladies hear as that is not my intention at all.

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I apologize for my grammar beforehand. I think the problem is, from personal experience, we get so many request that goes nowhere and some that are just plain bizarre that we kinda just “cut the crap” and put out expectations high to scare the weirdos. That and the fact most women here want a monthly allowance or materialistic gains and these suppose “sugar daddies” only want to give life advice and travel trips in exchange for our time, money and sex. 

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1 year ago Total posts: 2

I agree with you in some terms. If the meet is strictly for a chimestry check then no a paid meet is uncalled for unless you expect intercourse then you are at the wrong. But if you want to trade business knowledge for “companionship” this site might now be fit for you. Most women here are seeking monthly allowance or materialistic spoiling if we wanted a someone to hang out with travel and buy us food then we would get a regular companion. Be direct with what you are seeking when conversing to these women, and ask what they are looking for as well. 

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1 year ago

I have twice now had prospective SB throw out $ before meeting, both wanted a pay-as-you-go/pay-per-meeting. The worst wanted $800 per meeting... If i wanted to be a client or 'John' i would go to a different site. When I let the two young women know that was well out of my range (hell my BMW did not run me that much!) both stated that if i could not afford a SB i should get off the site. Have not renewed my pay subscription since, maybe i should not be on the site... 

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1 year ago

VERY well said!!

 

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1 year ago

 I agree 

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1 year ago

This method does not waste time, a lot of sugar daddy does not have money, just want to sleep with free sugar baby.

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1 year ago

If I were going to ask for money before meeting it would only be the tiniest amount! Only to pay for my time invested in getting to know the person and being able to meet!

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Quoting removed_rnrobert_63771924:

im old school i pay it all



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Don't you dare pay anything until a connection has been established, you find out if she's even worth the effort and if she is going to honor her part of the bargain.  Don't be the fool who gets taken advantage of.  Better to be alone and rich then alone and broke!!!

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1 year ago

im old school i pay it all

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1 year ago Total posts: 2

I agree with you.  Can't throw money at a person and you haven't established an arrangement or a mutual benefiting relationship. 

 

At the same time the gentleman aka daddy should tell her his needs and the sugar baby hers and agree upon a set amount.  

 

Don't lower your value and what you can bring to the table and a real sugar daddy wants to spoil, mentor and guide! 

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1 year ago

I agree with both parties, but some POT dadies, want to meet, and get all the goodies, and waste you time, then not give any benefits$$ in return. All SB,s have to be cautious of fakes and freebie hunters, even when they first meet. A real daddy, will give you on idea of the benefits he is prepaid to offer, even before you meet. The real ones, that have done SD-SB before, will know how things work. And if he likes you when you meet, he will offer more in terms of benefits for that perfect connection.

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I totally understand your desire for an intellectual and deeper connection before discussing any kind of payments, so sorry you had to go through that!

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Law of attraction. Attracted to the wrong people? Change the energy your putting out mister or date ugly girls lol.

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LOL money money money

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Well said, I like both the answers... that is 100% true...we can't commit to anything unless we got that connection and spark....mutual understanding and respect is a must...otherwise, it is just meaningless.

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1 year ago

hi if a lady is throwing amounts at you, then she is not a lady. Especially if you haven't yet met. While help is part of a sugar relationship as you have said there should also be a connection and mutual respect.

as far as I'm concerned it is up to the gentleman to say what he is comftable with and then they discuss things from there.