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welcome to the dark side

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1 year ago

i had a pofile on another site, also with sugar daddy in the title.  but got the distinct feeling that no-one understood the term sugar daddy.  the only responses were for girls who, well to be nice about it, sought sugar daddies professionally and charged by the hour.  the other group of people were those who wanted to get married, but were happy to spend a week or two getting to know each other first.

do you know what a sugar daddy is?  i certainly have my view, and it's clearly not aligned with either of the two women i've described above.  hopefully you'll also understand.  to test whether you do, ask yourself if my being married is incompatible with my wanting to be a sugar daddy; if you understand that the two can happily co-exist, then, i'd love to hear more from you.

until next time...

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Hi. everyone has needs, no matter who you are or your situation, everyone has thier own reasons for doing what they do, very few others will understand why, no one else can tell you how to be happy. Judgement is just an ugly human response for a person who has lack of understanding for another.

Critisizing others only means you don't understand thier needs, Daddy & baby situations work very well when two of the right people connect & give eachother a real chance without judgement. More Daddies & babies might find eachother if more chances were given & judgements were less, you may be very happily surprised by what you may find......

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hey do u wanna chat were u from

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1 year ago
It's been a while, and I've emailed/ chatted with quite a few people, but met only a few.

I'm seeking a mistress who wants to be appreciated. I don't want to see he every day or even every week, I need to know she's there for me, and vice versa.

I have no problem with the exchange side of this deal, and I agree that it generally needs to be substantive, but I'm also not going to fund someome's BMW.
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So what are your thoughts now a few months on surely having meet enough women to be able to make a decision on your needs and is being a Sugar Daddy all that is crack up to be?

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i understand what you are saying.
What are the ages you are looking for in a SB?
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Can spoil me privatedad but no nookies lol x
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agree


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I am amazed at what I am reading. Do you females think so little of yourself that you would find a male to give you what you need? Is it sex or money? Fun places to go and be seen? Entrainment? What are you looking for in a relationship.. or is it NOT a relationship you want? Get you butts to school and make your own money and start looking in the mirror and like yourself first.
If you do not respect yourself.,,, who in the heck will respect you?
Any guy will take whatever because you will give anything and everything. They do not respect you.. just getting a piece of A__. You will end up alone and old. What a way to end up!!
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hi i was reading all the blogs and came across yours and would like to chat more to you
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So much for conversation, huh? I'm new to this site and not sure if it's even worth pursuing, but I feel personally that if I was in a relationship and still looking for a sugar daddy then one of the following must apply: A) There is something essential lacking in the current situation that makes me seek to fulfill my needs elsewhere; B) I am in a place in my life where I am insatiable or greedy due to low self esteem or unrealistic views of what another person can or should offer me.

I am not in a relationship, but seeking a sugar daddy because I feel a successful, older man has much to offer mentally and physically, NOT just financially. I don't have a shopping addiction and I don't believe in casual, meaningless sex...I do believe that 2 people can help each other with needs and goals and thereby enrich this life experience in new and exciting ways.
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hi there privatedad,
i have to say that which ever site you go to you will always find people who view thing's differently so even though i liked your profile i do not completly agree. there are different meanings for heaps of words and i think this is anotherone
it is not hard to see why they think of sugar daddy as being..
a) a site for a private quick buck
b) a site to hook up or marry a wealthy man
but even my view could be wrong since i am after being a mistress called when needed,loved,spoiled in all way's and secretly kissed by the married man goodbye x
we all at the end of the day want something, but it might be my mistake but i did not see what you wanted??
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I agree. We are all here for fun(committed or not?.I presume everyone has their own reason why they are on this site. I have the most weird reason but not for me to disclose to everyone.

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I have to agree with you.. Most girls really dont understand the sugar daddy process. I am stil learning and trying to figure out the on line dating. I do know that you must talk and figure out if you will even be able to jump into the sack. I have heard how women do charge and still figure this is not a call girl service. Maybe that is why I dont have anyone looking at my profile. I think these girls should meet and at least understand that half of the time you do have a sugar daddy there is no marriage... but than I might just be old fashion playing in the big leaques.
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I agree. I am married and my husband is totally okay with me having a friend who just happens to spoil me or that I go on a few dates and hang out with this person. As long as it doesnt lead to sex and not being truthful its all in good nature to have a friend.
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well i am new on here and is ridiculous that girls r charging be the hr, they making their self look like a hooker. i dont care how much money u hv i am not getting marry for the wrong reason to be unhappy in the end. I always was the sugar mama for all my lazy ex boy friends so i am def looking to be spoil but i am not looking to use anyone just for that. I will like a relationship but rather start as friends. If its meant to be more then it will happen
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LOL i have yet found any friend 8-(

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I'm committed too lol !
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1 year ago

ok, so a few of you have viewed this blog - thanks for that.


how about some conversation? what's your view of people on here who are already in relationships? i was surprised to find women on here who are committed - but i'm the last person to judge. as long as everyone's having fun, and no-one's getting hurt, it's all ok by me.


agree or disagree?