Quoting paysright:

I hate to break it to you, but what people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard then it slowly fades leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. I did it. Your parents did it; your friends are doing it too. Break the cycle, rise above, focus on your goals. Don't give your heart away until that heart beats in the person you want to be.  are you there yet, can he take you there and show you the path. I can, and will put you up on a pedestal, shower you with gifts, and take you fine dining to wear that black dress that's been sitting in your closet.  

The ladder of love