How to Make Sure You Don't Get a Second Date

Jan 01, 2025

We’ve all had dates that didn’t lead anywhere, and sometimes, it’s simply a lack of chemistry. But other times, it’s because one of you (maybe you?) made a critical error that doomed the evening. If you’re curious about what might be sabotaging your chances—or just need a laugh—here’s a playful guide to ensure you’ll never get a second date.

Talk About Your Ex Like They’re Still Part of Your Life

Nothing kills the mood faster than bringing up your ex. If you rave about how amazing they were, your date will assume you’re still in love. Complain about how awful they were, and your date might worry they’ll end up as your next horror story. Either way, it’s a one-way ticket to Awkward City.

Save the ex talk for therapy, group chats, or maybe your pet goldfish. Your date isn’t the right audience for rehashing past relationships.

Look Distracted and Disinterested

First dates are about connection, but if you’re constantly scanning the room, fidgeting, or checking your phone, you’ll come across as bored. Picking at your teeth or staring into the distance won’t help, either.

Sure, nerves happen—but try to stay present. Eye contact, a smile, and genuine attention go a long way in making your date feel special. You might even surprise yourself and enjoy the conversation!

Be a Negative Nancy

Nobody wants to sit across from someone who complains all night. Whether it’s the weather, the food, or your neighbor’s barking dog, constant negativity is a major turn-off. Even if things aren’t perfect, try to stay upbeat. A little positivity can turn an average date into an enjoyable one.

Forget the Basics of Politeness

Want to make your date regret meeting you? Be late without a heads-up, ignore common courtesies, or treat the waitstaff poorly. Bad manners send a clear message: you don’t respect others.

Instead, show your best side. Hold the door, say thank you, and be gracious—it’s not rocket science, but it leaves a great impression.

Go Too Deep, Too Soon

Discussing future kids’ names or your dream wedding on the first date is a surefire way to overwhelm your date. While it’s great to have goals, bringing them up too early can feel like jumping into the deep end without a life jacket. Keep it light—there’s plenty of time for serious conversations later.

Dress Like You Didn’t Try

Showing up underdressed (or wildly overdressed) signals you didn’t put much thought into the date. While you don’t need to wear a tuxedo, dressing appropriately shows respect for the occasion and your companion.

How to Avoid These Pitfalls

The good news? Most of these mistakes are easy to fix. Stay present, show kindness, and approach the date with an open mind. Even if sparks don’t fly, you’ll leave a positive impression.

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