I'm not like most sugar babies. While I want to be treated, its not for any selfish reason, its that my family is struggling. I look after my father and my disabled brother, things are hard and costs are high, and I can't work because time working would be time not spent caring. I'm not just looking for a provider, I'm also looking for someone I can love!
And the challenge is that most of us don't think you're selfish - we just want to find someone who's a good fit. Paying for an arrangement is fine - it's about getting something that both parties are happy with. Sorry but your personal circumstance don't matter if you go to the supermarket .... and unfortunately they don't really matter here. And many SDs will be wary if that's what you're selling ... if we want to donate money why wouldn't we just give to Save The Children?