why is it that most of the time broke guys want girls their own age? i was on another dating site and i got turned down by older guys saying they wanted woman in their 40's and 50's, when i was 18 and wanted them. do they just do it because.. what. some of them admitted they wanted me but felt perverted to go out with me when they were like in their 40s or 50s. its the norm for successful guys to date younger woman, but broke guys.. not so much?