Please understand that I am very new to this. I want financial support but I don't want to make my sd feel like a bank. I want sd to understand that I plan to give as well as receive. So.... How do you bring up the subject of money? How many dates do u have to go on before you ask?
Tell him the same thing you just posted. Gotta have avery open and damn near vulnerable conversation with him. Ask him what's appropriate and what's not. You don't want every conversation being about him giving you something. Gotta offer "your services" without the expectation of getting something back. Remember that this is still a relationship whether or not there are feelings between you two. Don't do the "tic for tac" thing either. Basically let him know on the sly what you need, treat him like a King, and then you won't ever have to say. Well, that is if he's a real Sugardaddy. Hope this helps!