• Should I Tell My Friends or Family that I am a Sugar Baby? Posted by Admin

    A sugar baby cheers with a sugar daddy

    The thought of telling friends and family about a new, significantly wealthier lifestyle can make the skin of many sugar babies crawl. Questions such as “how did you afford that bag”, can quickly lead to criticisms and condemnations, and dealing with such dis-approvals from your closest buddies can be a pain.

    The thought of telling friends and family about a new, significantly wealthier lifestyle can make the skin of many sugar babies crawl. Questions such as “how did you afford that bag”, can quickly lead to criticisms and condemnations, and dealing with such dis-approvals from your closest buddies can be a pain. But these questions are inevitable. When friends and family notice significant changes in your lifestyle, those prying eyes would definitely surface. How come you couldn’t pay the bills without the help of mom and dad and everything is suddenly fine now? How come you were broke some time ago but you can now afford the latest Apple gear? Those vacations to choice cities and locations, those expensive trips to the 5-star restaurants you otherwise cannot afford, and those pictures on social media displaying your new lifestyle will make explanations difficult for you. More so, you’ll be unlucky with slips sooner rather than later, bringing up a time when “Mike” got you an expensive wine at a plush restaurant. Who’s Mike? Oops! Curiosity will be inevitable when things start adding up gradually with no face in the picture. So should you tell friends or family that you are a sugar baby? Do they really need to know about your sudden upturn in fortunes?


    Keeping it a Secret


    If you decide against keeping it secret, then more power to you! You must realize that this step has its pros and cons. The pros are obvious – you do not have to hide or lie anymore, which can be really tiring and painful especially when you are doing this regularly with those closest to you. The double life would be unnecessary and you can even express your joy openly when the sugar baby perks arrive. But there are drawbacks too.

    The stigma associated with the sugar baby lifestyle and the misconception that it is basically prostitution may cause lots of negative attention when you open up. What if your colleagues at work eventually find out? Is it worth all of the risk? Why do you want to tell someone about your new lifestyle? Is it for safety reasons or do you just need a confidante? Whatever the case, all your friends do not need to know what’s going on. So how do you determine the best persons to reveal this truth to?

    It would be ideal to start off with someone you really trust. Your best friend, cousin, or even your parents may represent important, yet trustworthy associates of yours. Telling someone you really trust while doing stuff you both normally engage in together such as having a walk or sharing some ice cream will make the talk easier and less tense for you.

    Bring it up as though you are having a conversation about just anything, without putting up a serious tone to the talk. However, do keep in mind that your friend or family member will still be shocked, but let them know you chose to tell them because you trust them. Assure them of your safety and tell them about just how exciting your relationship has been. Then ask them to tell no one about it.

    Telling the Truth


    If you decide against keeping it secret, then more power to you! You must realize that this step has its pros and cons. The pros are obvious – you do not have to hide or lie anymore, which can be really tiring and painful especially when you are doing this regularly with those closest to you. The double life would be unnecessary and you can even express your joy openly when the sugar baby perks arrive. But there are drawbacks too.

    The stigma associated with the sugar baby lifestyle and the misconception that it is basically prostitution may cause lots of negative attention when you open up. What if your colleagues at work eventually find out? Is it worth all of the risk? Why do you want to tell someone about your new lifestyle? Is it for safety reasons or do you just need a confidante? Whatever the case, all your friends do not need to know what’s going on. So how do you determine the best persons to reveal this truth to?

    It would be ideal to start off with someone you really trust. Your best friend, cousin, or even your parents may represent important, yet trustworthy associates of yours. Telling someone you really trust while doing stuff you both normally engage in together such as having a walk or sharing some ice cream will make the talk easier and less tense for you.

    Bring it up as though you are having a conversation about just anything, without putting up a serious tone to the talk. However, do keep in mind that your friend or family member will still be shocked, but let them know you chose to tell them because you trust them. Assure them of your safety and tell them about just how exciting your relationship has been. Then ask them to tell no one about it.

    Your lifestyle is your choice – and there is no right or wrong however you choose to handle it. Just ensure you consider the pros and cons of your decisions and settle for what is best for you – now and in the future.

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